Marriage is ugly, you see the absolute worst in someone. You see them when they are mad, sad, being stubborn, when they are so unlovable they make you scream. But you also get to see them when they are laughing so hard that tears run down their face, and they cannot help but let out those weird gurgling noises.
You see them at 3am when the world is asleep except you two, and you are eating in the middle of the kitchen floor. You get to see the side of them that no one else does, and it is not always pretty. Its snorting while laughing, its the tears when it feels like its all crashing down, its the farting, its the bedhead and bad breath, its the random dances, its the anger and the joy.
Marriage is not a beautiful thing, but it is amazing. It is knowing that someone loves you so much, and will not leave you even though you said something nasty. It is having someone have your back no matter what. Its fights over stupid things, like someone not doing the dishes or picking up after themselves. And it’s those nights you fall asleep in each others arms, feeling like there will never be enough time with them. It is cleaning up their throw up, or just rubbing their back when they are sick. It is the dirtiest, hardest, most rewarding job there is.
Because at the end of the day you get to crawl into bed with your best friend, the weirdest, most annoying, loving, goofy, perfect person that you know. Marriage is not beautiful, but it is one heaven of a ride. ❤️
