I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me… I feel the pain …
You provoked him …
You should have been quiet…
You looked for it…
… Apologise, they say???
Did ALLAH fashion me out of stone? Am i supposed to roll over and play dead because I’m a woman????
I get into an argument with a man, I slap him…
You have no respect, they hurl at me in anger…
Is this the upbringing your parents gave you…
You need to remember your place, they say…
Apologize they say…
Because i am a woman, i do not have a right to anger. So the degree of my innocence, is directly proportional to the degree of my silence, in the face of oppression and brutality….
Because i am a woman, my husband cheats on me, accusingly questioned as though i have sinned, well what have you done to provoke this, my son would never do that, well one woman to another, would you allow this to happen to your very own daughter?????
They tell me to tolerate and overlook, divorce is not an option, you will save this marriage, The barbaric and lame excuse, men are weak, it is in their nature. Lose weight they say, dress better, pray a little harder and no matter what be more pleasant to him he will come around…
Seriously… In Allah’s name…
Okay girl take a step back, you got this … Just breath #sigh
I receive love and attention and to them i am a cheat.. I am belittled and disgraced, because someone thinks I deserved to be loved… To them i am irresponsible and unfaithful…
Unfaithful for love that came to me….
Am i not human i ask?
If he had the right to break such sacred vows, why am i to pay the price by simply existing and not living?
Am i stone i ask, am i not human????
They send me packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed in a box, that you stuck together, and you are woman too, how can you do this to one woman when you are woman too i ask????
I am forbidden from seeing this man now, a man you gave authority to wrong…
Three years have gone by so painfully, with such shame and so much of verbal brutality… I have become cheap because i decided i too am important, I am not worthy as a woman because i choose to be who God created me to be, i was wrong for wanting to be loved, yet mother of his you asked me with disgust that horrid day “what have you done to make him do this”???
He is 30 plus and runs a company now, to the public he’s known as wonderful, hardworking, focused, career orientated, successful at a very young age… But wait…
Does nobody see that he is still a womanizer?????
I am 37, i run my own company, depend on only my Lord for provision, i am successful, i too am career orientated and hardworking…. But as i walk by all i hear is, she is not even married, so unserious about life, no priorities, a real hustler, she loves money, wait till she finds a husband he will put her in her place…
All i can do is laugh… Yes at 37 i am single, but happy… i make my own hustle and i do prioritise… and no i will never need a man to define me… not let negivity bring me down, i wonder how these people can assume success is based on one’s gender????
Because i am a woman, i am not allowed to be witty or to be a prodigy, i am not allowed success or to be financially buoyant…. Because i am a woman i do not deserve respect without a man by my side???
I am classed cheap, a run around. They never see the possibility that i actually had to go through so much, the ups, the downs, the highs, the lows to get to where i am today????
Because i am a woman!!!!
A man looses a wife through death and remarried just weeks later, he did the right thing????
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A woman looses her husband through death and decided to remarry once her kids are married off and settled and she becomes so they say “hard up for a man”… she must have been jolling with him when hér husband was still alive… she must have had something to do with his death that witch…
Why does a man get praised for moving on with life, yet a woman’s name and reputation gets tarnished..
Because she is a woman???
Because i am a woman the piece that i have just related to you, will be considered controversial, you will want to correct me.. But let’s not forget that i am a woman and it does not make me less human ….
Truth or Lie…..
I AM WOMAN….
