One evening a man returned home from work and found his wife cooking, walked over to her and she smiled giving him a welcome home honey kiss..
They were truly so happy.
Whilst at the dinner table the woman’s cell phone beeped..
A good night message from a friend..
The husband saw the message and got really upset..
He at that point, chose not to talk about the matter but rather left the table without eating and in a fit of rage..
The woman looked up at her husband in amazement and thought,
No way, this is not right, you are not being fair, i see these things happening all the time, and i have to be okay with it, yet you are bothered by a simple message?
Oh no, dear husband i am not going after you this time, you are not a child.
She sighed, and completed her meal alone and went to bed. That night the couple had an angry sleep and turned their backs @ each other that night..
At midnight, the wife had been sweating and was burning up with fever.. She was unable to speak. She touched her husband’s back. He responded with his famous dont bother me attitude and pushed his wife’s hand away..
The woman without more air, died of heart attack that night..
In the morning, he woke up, took a bath and prepared his things to go to work.
The wife was still in bed, then the man looked at her and thought to himself, her cheek to be asleep till this late, however chose to ignore her, with the thought of I will not speak to her, until she does it first attitude..
Then, he dressed up, had breakfast and went to work.
In the afternoon, he stopped at their favorite jewellery store and and purchased the watch he had his eye on for his wife..
When the husband arrived home, he was happy, all that anamosity having now disappeared, he was going to suprise his beloved wife with that stunning watch and tell her how much he loved her, how much he was in love with her and would just hold her close..
Then, he opens the door and goes to the kitchen, because he was ready to surprise his beloved with a big hello hug, kiss and her most beautiful gift, but he sees that the breakfast was still there, now confused, thinking to himself, is she still mad at me !!!
The man goes to the room to leave his briefcase, and sees that the wife was still in the bed lying in the same position.
Now absolutely afraid, he walks over to her and something tells him, he really was not going to like what he had discovered.. He stands by her side of the bed leans over and touches her ice cold hand..
The husband cries, cries a lot and more. He screams in despair, because the wife was dead … Now he knew it was too late!!
Reflection:
Time is too short for fights. Know how to take advantage of it.
Take good care of your partner! Love your spouse unconditionally, cherish him/her, express more love and forgiveness and less hate..
Time waits for no-one. Above all do not display arrogance/pride in a marriage, solve issues, and never go to bed angry..
Stop and think:
If you do not want to put pride aside and solve things, the consequences can be irreversible. Sometimes, we have to sacrifice for love; there are no perfect people, there are real people willing to sacrifice for that love we so easily take for granted..
Communication between couples is key, I will not tell you that marriage is all moon shine and roses, that you will never face problems that would be a lie, and whoever says that he never fought with his partner is a liar, but everything has a solution except death.
Treasure what you have before it becomes what you thought you would never lose..
