Would you like to follow your heart, but your mind or something else is stopping you?
Does it feel uncomfortable, uncertain, and maybe even confusing to follow your heart?
What you maybe experiencing is normal and very common when choosing to follow your heart. It is a sign that you are heading in the right direction, because your mind and body are making adjustments to a new way of being and living.
Your mind wants proof that heart-centered living works. The only problem is that you will not get proof until you start to follow your heart.
It will feel awkward and weird at first, like anything new, but once you see that your heart is leading you on exactly the path you need, your mind will automatically begin to trust.
The battle between your mind and your heart, when you are a novice in heart-centered matters, it will naturally feel safer to follow your mind.
This sense of comfort is an illusion, because if you look at your past, you see that solely following your mind has not helped you create the life you truly want.
This is what i discovered when i began listening to my heart. I was miserable, pessimistic and always proud of my impeccable logic.
Your heart, however, is connected to something bigger than you. You may call it spirit, the unconscious, god, higher-self, or the universe.
I don’t worry too much about what label to put on it. What i care about are the results it produces in my life.
The Art of Not-Knowing..
Now dont get me wrong, im not telling you to kill your mind, it has its uses. I am simply saying that you need to aim for a more balanced approach.
Let your heart and mind integrate and work as a team. When you follow your heart more, and your mind sees the results, the integration naturally occurs.
However, you have to take that initial leap of faith to get the process going. We have been taught that we should know everything before we do anything.
We spend our lives avoiding the unknown, but the truth of the matter is that you really don’t have to know everything to know enough.
You only have to know your next step, and the next step can be given to you by listening to your heart.
It may come as a gentle nudge, a thought, a feeling, or even a song on the radio.
It may come as a gentle nudge, a thought, a feeling, or even a song on the radio.
Taking action..
You have probably seen others follow their hearts. It looks good, but that may leave you doubting your own abilities.
You may even look at other people living their passion with balance and think that you would never be able to do that. They must have some kind of magical ability, right?
They must be better than you in some way. But they are not. They have simply learned how to listen to their hearts and consider those around them.
They are not fearless. They simply take things one day at a time, one step at a time. They feel fear, overwhelm, and confusion, just like you.
The difference is that they have developed the trust in themselves, just like you are doing right now, to overcome fears and work with them.
The fact that you are feeling what you are feeling now is a sign that you are heading in the right direction, because “negative” feelings will always be there to greet you when you embark on a path worth traveling.
Always remember that.
Following your heart..
I cannot give you the exact steps for following your heart, because your signals will differ from mine, but what i can do is share what my experiences have been.
Most people overlook messages from their heart because they are looking in the wrong direction. If you only focus on the grass on the other side, your’s will not get greener..
Keep your eyes open and your focus wide, because you never know where your heart will nudge you..
What i do is stay open to suggestions and notice how things or loved ones feel. Most of the time it may not feel right, or something will feel off, so i either say no, or decide to wait.
Sometimes you may feel uncertain. If that is tge case, explore the opportunity further and see how things go and how they feel.
There will always be enough opportunities. Saying no does not mean missing out, because there will be other moments coming along. That is where balance falls into place.
Communicate with your mind..
Being right all the time is not always the best option..
I do my best to trust my heart, but sometimes the feelings and nudges i get are not authentic.
By this i mean that i can misinterpret what they are all about. Sometimes the messages from my heart can be clouded by the emotions i feel inside.
I am okay with that. I know that i will not get it right all the time, and this small amount of uncertainty adds a bit of spice to my life.
Sometimes it’s fun, and sometimes it isn’t. It’s all a part of the game we call life.
The more you follow your heart, the better you get at it. It’s like with anything else, it’s not about being perfect, it’s about learning and trusting the process.
That’s the way i see it.
You will not always be right, but you will always be heading in the right direction, even when you feel like you are not.
Your life is changing..
The fact that you have taken the time to read this means that something inside of you is looking for a change. You are already changing inside, and you can feel it, can’t you?
This happened to me in my late teens. I knew that I was not heading in the right direction. Something had to change, and it did.
It did not happen overnight, but as i put one foot in front of the other, change took place, and i discovered what passionate living is all about.
And while you may feel confused from time to time, know that it’s just a sign that you are growing and evolving in the best way for you.
There is a reason why you read this.
Something resonates with you, and you may not even know what it is, and that’s okay.
The positive feeling inside is a message from your heart.
It’s a sign that you are already following your heart. You are already on the right path.
You already have what it takes to live a heart-based life.
Now it’s entirely up to you to expand how much you listen to you heart, and that can only happen through listening and experimenting.
So have fun with it.
