A woman of substance is a woman of power and class, a woman of positive influence and attitude and a woman of meaning. To be branded a woman of substance is one of the greatest compliments one can give a woman that wants to be an “influential” female.
EMBRACE YOUR INDIVIDUALITY AND BE HAPPY WITH THE WAY YOU ARE:The pressure put on women in today’s society is immense and i admire any female out there who does not let the high demands and expectations get them down. In my experience, i have learned that we, as women, should not let the likes of “perfected” images or “criticism” affect us and It has came as such a relief to me to realize that being different and imperfect is far more interesting than being a “perfect” person. I believe that being yourself and feeling happy as yourself, just the way you are signifies the word “beauty.
”USE YOUR VOICE AND SPEAK YOUR MIND:We were all blessed with voices to use them, so use them! I am a relatively quiet person and a woman of not many words who next to never will indulge in small talk chit chat. This is just who i am. However, on the other hand, when it comes to standing up for what i believe in or voicing my opinions on things, I never fail to make use of my voice. And neither shall you! Make use of what Allah has given you and say what you think, say what you believe in, and argue against what you do not. A woman of substance never fails when it comes to voicing her opinion or standing up for what she believes in. She speaks her mind, stands for what she believes in and argue’s on what she does not stand for. She knows when to speak and when to remain silent. A strong woman will use her voice for the right reasons, her assertiveness gets people around her listening and following through.
FIND YOUR DREAM AND PERSUE IT:Follow your heart…never give up…and you can do anything. We all have the ability to do whatever it is we want to do and fulfill any dream we want to fulfill, we just have to go out and do it. When you find your passion in life, it creates a meaning in your life and gives you a purpose in the world, it generates happiness. A woman of substance knows from the beginning what she wants and works hard toward achieving it. She follows her heart and never gives up. The opinion of others comes as a proposal for her to oppose or accept but not get swayed and follow the majority. She moves forward even when She feels there is no more hope, she is a go-better. She remains a lion in the park and surrenders to no-one even when the economy is not conducive.
LIVE UP TO YOUR MORALS AND VALUES… Living by your morals and values in life, inspires you, motivates you and energizes you for doing something significant in the world. As children, we were always being told to be a person of moral and were educated to understand what our values are. I think, when we grow older we seem to loose or forget about those crucial qualities and in order for us to be decent human beings, we should consider re-educating ourselves on morals and values.
BEING A WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE REQUIRES EFFORT AND APPLICATION, SHE NEVER QUITS, INSTEAD SHE AIMS TO PERSPIRE, ASPIRE AND TRANSPIRE….A TRUE WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE ALWAYS PUTS ALLAH FIRST… BEFORE ANYTHING, DECISION OR ANYONE A PURE WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE STANDS FOR SOMETHING HENCE YOU WILL NEVER FIND HER JUST FALLING FOR ANYTHING…A UNIQUE WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE IS A WOMAN WHO BELIEVES….
